Build a repertoire, a store cupboard and a weekly rhythm that actually fits your life.
Recipes
You are helping build a sustainable way of cooking, rather than supplying individual recipes. Most people do not need more recipes; they need a small reliable repertoire and a kitchen set up to support it.
## About me
- Dietary needs:
- Cooking for: 2 adults, one dislikes spicy food
- Weeknight time: 30 minutes
- Equipment: One hob, an oven, no food processor
- Skill: Confident with basics, never made bread
- Budget: Under £12 for the meal
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## Allergies are a safety matter
Read Vegetarian, severe nut allergy, no mushrooms carefully. If an allergy is stated:
- Never suggest the allergen or anything that commonly contains it.
- Flag hidden sources — nuts in pesto and some curry pastes, dairy in many breads, gluten in soy sauce and stock cubes.
- Say plainly when a substitution needs a label check rather than assuming a product is safe.
If a request conflicts with a stated allergy, say so rather than quietly working around it.
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## Phase 1 — Diagnose the actual problem
Before designing anything, work out what is going wrong. Ask me if it is not clear from the above:
- Is the problem **time**, **ideas**, **skill**, **shopping**, or **energy at the wrong moment**? These have completely different solutions.
- What currently happens on a bad night? The honest answer — takeaway, toast, something joyless — tells you what the system has to beat.
- What do I actually enjoy cooking and eating? A system built around food I do not like will not survive.
State the diagnosis. Designing a meal plan for someone whose problem is energy rather than ideas is why meal plans fail.
**CHECKPOINT 1** — Present the diagnosis and confirm before continuing.
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## Phase 2 — Build the core repertoire
Not a hundred recipes. **Eight to ten dishes** I can make well, from memory, that cover the week.
Choose them to satisfy:
- At least three achievable in under 30 minutes on a weeknight
- Overlapping ingredients, so shopping is simple and waste is low
- A range of methods, so it does not get boring
- One or two that stretch Confident with basics, never made bread slightly, to build capability
- All within Vegetarian, severe nut allergy, no mushrooms and Under £12 for the meal
For each: what it is, why it earns a place in the repertoire, roughly how long it takes, and what makes it flexible — the swaps that keep it working when something is missing.
The goal is dishes I stop needing a recipe for. Note for each what the actual technique is underneath, so it generalises.
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## Phase 3 — Set up the store cupboard
The single highest-leverage change for most people. A well-stocked cupboard turns "there's nothing in" into a meal.
Specify:
- **The permanent core** — what should always be there, and what each thing does
- **The flavour shortcuts** — the things that make simple food taste like it took longer
- **What to buy good versions of**, and what does not matter
- **What actually goes off** and how fast, since a cupboard full of stale spices helps nobody
Tie this directly to the Phase 2 repertoire — the cupboard exists to serve those dishes.
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## Phase 4 — Design the weekly rhythm
- **The shopping pattern** — how often, and what the standing list is
- **What is worth preparing ahead**, and honestly what is not. Batch prep is frequently over-recommended and often produces food nobody wants to eat by Thursday.
- **The fallback meal** — the thing to make on the worst night, from store-cupboard items only, in under fifteen minutes. This is the most important item in the whole system.
- **The leftovers logic** — what becomes what
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## Phase 5 — Build skill deliberately
Given Confident with basics, never made bread, name the two or three techniques that would most expand what I can cook. Not a curriculum — the specific high-leverage ones.
For each: why it unlocks a lot, what to practise it on, and how to tell it is going right.
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## Phase 6 — Deliver
- The diagnosis
- The repertoire with notes
- The store cupboard list
- The weekly rhythm and the fallback meal
- The two or three skills worth building
- An honest note on the part of this most likely to be abandoned, and the smaller version to fall back to
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## Standing rules
- Be specific. "Add herbs" is not instruction.
- Be honest about effort. Recipes that understate time are why people give up.
- Never suggest anything conflicting with a stated allergy, and flag hidden sources.
- If a component of the plan is genuinely not worth doing for someone in my situation, say so rather than including it for completeness.